Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Break Time

When do you look at your dating life and begin to say... I think I need a break from all this??? I think it comes we you really do not care anymore. I had several dates one week... all first dates, and I have been getting so burned out! I am wasting time on facebook, seeing what all "my friends" are doing instead of getting ready for the date. I look at my clock and it is 7:30. Wait?!? I am suppose to be there at the restaurant at 7:30. I text him to tell him I will be late and his response is "No Problem!". Is it no problem??? I began to realize it IS a problem! Why is it that I do not care one bit about meeting this guy and going on another blind date. Am I burned out on this dating life? I think so! Its a problem when I am not even excited to get ready and meet someone. After you meet about 60 different strangers on dates over the last 6 months, and NONE are worth dating... you begin to think HE is not out there!!!! Maybe it is the fact that I am putting myself out there and trying to meet people. I am making a strong effort to meet people and connect with others..... all in hopes of finding "Mr. Right". Maybe I just need to let things be for a while and take a step backwards. What if I take a break from dating all together???????

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2 comments:

  1. I was on the same boat for a long time. I went on many, many, many dates. Lots of first dates. A few second and third dates. But nothing happened. I got frustrated and annoyed. So I just stopped. I gave up. And shortly after that I met the man of my dreams. That's what everyone says will happen and it did. When you're not looking for anything, it falls right into your lap. So maybe just stop? Stop and live your own life and do things that you want to do and see what happens!

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  2. Thanks for the comment! Everyone does say that! I just might have to see where that leads :)

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