Get Over It!

Get over it.... Ever heard that old Eagles song "Get over it"? Well, that is what this blog is about. This big, bad world doesn't owe you a thing.... here are a few lyrics from this lil tune:

All this whining and cryin and pitchin a fit

Get over it, get over it!

Complain about the present and blame it on the past

Id like to find your inner child and kick its little ass

Get over it, get over it!

The way I see it, is that life is not fair. Really, really not fair! We can wallow in our unfair life, or decide to to take it in stride. I have had crap happen to me in my life, and so have most people. I am really tired of dating men that have been married before and were "burned" by their ex that now they sit around and are not willing to take a chance on ever being happy. MOST people have been burned. I have too. I am not a stranger to unfair things happening in my life. Things that I sit and question "why in the world is God putting me through this"?? But you know what? Would of, should of, could of... the past is the past and in order to ever move forward you must BURY the past. The past hurt, irritation, unwarranted things that have happened to you.... put it to rest. Not only do you need to bury your past, but the past of the one you are dating. If they stayed in a marriage too long, if they had a past that you do not agree with... then leave them. Do not sit around and wish that they would have done something differently in their past, before they even met you. This is their past and if you don't like it... leave.

If you truly want to be happy in life, you will understand that we all made mistakes, have stayed in a relationship too long or for the wrong reasons, been mistreated by someone we thought we loved..... but all this does not define us. We are made up of all of our experiences, but it does not determine our future or how the rest of our story will turn out. The past experiences are only chapters in our book of LIFE. So, live and love... fully. That is what we are here for. Put yourself out there..... give 110%. Do not continue this victim mentality! Give all you have and one day you will find that someone that gives all they have back to you.